Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

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"I'm not saying she was lying to me, but she just acted so different before I got to know her, and if she really isn't like what she was at the beginning, I wish she could have just said so."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"The fights are always the same"

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"My Aunt Helen was my favorite person in the whole world. She was my mom’s sister. She got straight A’s when she was a teenager and she used to give me books to read. My father said that the books were a little too old for me, but I liked them so he just shrugged and let me read."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"If you care about somebody, you should want them to be happy. Even if you wind up being left out."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"And then he says something like this ... "I would die for you. But I won't live for you." Something like that. I think the idea is that every person has to live for his or her own life and then make the choice to share it with other people."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"If somebody likes me, I want them to like the real me, not what they think I am."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"Incidentally, I only have one cavity, and as much as my dentist asks me to, I just can't bring myself to floss."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"And I thought about how many people have loved those songs. And how many people got through a lot of bad times because of those songs. And how many people enjoyed good times with those songs. And how much those songs really mean. I think it would be great to have written one of those songs. I bet if I wrote one of them, I would be very proud. I hope the people who wrote those songs are happy. I hope they feel it's enough. I really do because they've made me happy. And I'm only one person."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"Asleep by the SmithsVapour Trail by RideScarborough Fair by Simon & GarfunkelA Whiter Shade of Pale by Procol HarumDear Prudence by the BeatlesGypsy by Suzanne VegaNights in White Satin by the Moody BluesDaydream by Smashing PumpkinsDusk by Genesis (before Phil Collins was even in the band!)MLK by U2Blackbird by the BeatlesLandslide by Fleetwood MacAsleep by the Smiths (again!)-Charlie's mixtape"

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"Everyone loves each other, but no one really likes each other"

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"The family watched It's a Wonderful Life, which is a very beautiful movie and all I could think was why didn't they make a movie about uncle Billy?...Because he was a drunk and fat and lost all that money in the first place. I wanted an angel to come down and show us how uncle Billy's life had meaning"

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"The two families really don't like each other, except for all us younger cousins because we don't know any better."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"It’s like when you’re excited about a girl and you see a couple holding hands, and you feel so happy for them. And other times you see the same couple, and they make you so mad. And all you want is to feel happy for them because you know that if you do, then it means you’re happy, too."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"It was the look on her face when she said it. And how much she meant it. It suddenly made everything seem like it really was. I felt terrible. Just terrible."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"Maybe he didn’t really encourage me to do things, but he didn’t prevent me from doing them either. But after a while, I didn’t do things because I didn’t want him to think different about me. But the thing is, I wasn’t being honest. So, why would I care whether or not he loved me when he didn’t really even know me?"

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"You see things You keep quiet about them. You understand."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"I don't want to be just another thing mary elizabeth is in charge of"

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"Things change and friends leave and life doesn't stop for anybody"

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"And things were back to normal except we were just friends."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"And I think they knew. Not anything specific really. They just knew. And I think that's all you can ever ask from a friend."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"I don't remember where we were walking to or where we were walking from. I don't even remember the season. I just remember walking between them and feeling for the first time that I belonged somewhere."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"On that piece of white paper, Sam wrote, "Write about me sometime." And I typed back to her, standing right there in her bedroom. I just typed. "I will."And I felt good that those were the first two words that I ever typed on my new old typewriter that Sam gave me. We just sat there quiet for a moment, and she smiled. And I moved to the typewriter again, and I wrote something. "I love you too."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"I know we didn't accomplish anything, but it felt great to sit there and talk about our place in things."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"That nice feeling when you look in the mirror, and your hair's right for the first time in your life? I don;t think we should base so much on weight, muscles, and a good hair day, but when it happens, it's nice. It really is."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

"Things get worse before they get better, but this is a worse that feels too big."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower