Raquel Cepeda, Bird of Paradise: How I Became Latina
40 quotes
"The truth is usually left for us to hunt and gather independently, if we are so inclined."
"This thing I am feeling, I’m almost certain, is the closest I’ll ever come to standing somewhere in between truth and reconciliation."
"Come to think of it, maybe God is a He after all, because only a cruel force would create something this beautiful and make it inaccessible to most people."
"Individually, every grain of sand brushing against my hands represents a story, an experience, and a block for me to build upon for the next generation."
"If Aphrodite chills at home in Cyprus for most of the year, then Fez must be the goddess’s playground."
"When we illuminate the road back to our ancestors, they have a way of reaching out, of manifesting themselves...sometimes even physically."
"While America will always, I think, feel foreign to me, New York City is my home. This is where I can construct my own identity freely and reject labels imposed on me."
"If it weren’t for her setting me free, I may still be a caged bird today, holding my own daughter captive on a shit-laden perch."
"For some, excavating the past isn’t an adventure, it’s more akin to tearing a Band-Aid off an open wound."
"I think Dad wanted to feel the pain, to feel his body cry, an urgent reminder that he was still alive. I pretended not to notice."
"Nobody, she felt, understood her--not her mother, not her father, not her sister or brother, none of the girls or boys at school, nadie--except her man."
"More than anything, this place feels familiar. I bury my hands in the hot sand and think about the embodiment of memory or, more specifically, our natural ability to carry the past in our bodies and minds. Individually, every grain of sand brushing against my hands represents a story, an experience, and a block for me to build upon for the next generation. I quietly thank this ancestor of mine for surviving the trip so that I could one day return."
"To me, travel is more valuable than any stupid piece of bling money can buy."
"Hip-hop...has been the proverbial key that’s opened the door for me to roam this breathtaking planet."
"I wish she’d said something different, but patriarchy is as prevalent around the world as racism and xenophobia are. We can’t hide from it, not even here."
"Globalization by the way of McDonald’s and KFC has captured the hearts, the minds, and from what I can see through the window, the growing bellies of the folks here."
"The past is buried deep within the ground in Rabat, although the ancient walls in the old city are still standing, painted in electrifying variations of royal blue that make the winding roads look like streamlets or shallow ocean water."
"I fall in love with Paraíso. It’s like a giant playground where I’m never scolded for running around recklessly, where I’m almost overwhelmed with the amount of attention and love I receive from Mami’s family. In New York, I’m invisible."
"Lately, Mami’s eyes have been so dark, I don’t like looking into them because I’m afraid I’ll fall in."
"I remember feeling that pieces of me were scattered around the world; I belonged to her, Mother Earth."
"Hip-hop is storytelling."
"...being Latino means being from everywhere, and that is exactly what America is supposed to be about."
"I guess it all depends on whom you ask and when you ask. Race, I've learned, is in the eye of the beholder."
"Foisting an identity on people rather than allowing them the freedom and space to create their own is shady."
"The tension between people is palpable, and the ideal of what it means to be and look American becomes a preoccupation to folks around the country, including me."