"I wish you were small again, so I could hold you in my arms and comfort you. But you are grown, and you know that for some things there is no comfort."
"You--cannot ever be certain of those you love--that they will not hurt you, even loving you. But to make me certain to love you, will be to take away any love I might give you freely."
"A net of words, he said at last, is more powerful than a net of rope."
"I thought of you with your hair silver as snow all through that cold, slow journey from Sirle. I felt you troubled deep within me, and there was no other place in the world I would rather have been than in the cold night riding to you. When you opened your gates to me, I was home."
"I need you to forgive me. And then perhaps I can begin to forgive myself. There is no one but you who can do that either."
"Be patient, as you must always be patient with new pale seeds buried in the dark ground. When you are stronger, you can begin to think again. But now is the time to feel."
"Shall I add a man to my collection?"
"Oh...if you were older...It is not a bad thing, itself, but it is a bad thing to be used by men, to have them choose what you must be, and what you must not be, to have little choice in your life. If you were older, you could choose your own way."